In His Own Words
About Him
I'm flexible. A pragmatist. A lover disguised as a fighter. I'm interested in everything and I'm willing to try anything, at least once. Every day is a new day. For fun? I play football and generally try to maintain an active lifestyle.
About His Ideal Match
My ideal match? Is there such a thing? I believe the foundation of any successful relationship is a genuine attraction to one another - it may be mind, body and soul or, if the planets have aligned correctly, all three. Like I said, I'll try anything. If it doesn't work, we acknowledge that and move on.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
Botswana | |
Location: |
Gaborone, South East, Botswana | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
39 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
French; Tswana | |
Religion: |
Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Trying to Quit | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Government | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in Africa | ||
Location: |
Gaborone (South East, Botswana) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
22 - 28 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African | ||
Home Language: |
English; Tswana | ||
Other Languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have Children: |
No | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Some University / College | ||
Occupation: |
Other | ||
Income: |
Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Optimistic; Outrageous |
Valued Qualities: |
Honesty; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Hiking; Soccer |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing absolutely nothing |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Dating Botswana: |
Embarrassed |
Honesty: |
Quite |
