In His Own Words
About Him
I am not going to waste time by thinking what people would like to read like "I work and play hard" - don't we all, or "I am loving and caring" - we all are, why are we here? I'll rather tell who I am and why you should get to know me...
What you see is what you get, no imitations or pretenses. I prefer the real world, not the dreamworld - that is for Peter Pan. I am who I am, and so should you be - or don't bother. I love to make people laugh and I love to be happy.
I am human (with a capital H), I laugh, I cry, I have my ups and downs, I love to hug and be hugged, I listen and talk, and I talk and listen. I am loud and spontaneous, but not over the top, sometimes I'm bold and sometimes I'm not. I say what needs to be said, better out in the open than locked in the closet. I love innocent secrets, they bring out the mysteries in life - it all makes life a bit more exciting and adventurous. I can be naughty and full of mischief, when the moment is right, life is fun, and I'm having a lot of it, no limits here.
I love excitement - "dare to go bare" but stay away from the "death wish" thing. I live my life to the fullest, no limitations. I enjoy challenges and things that are unusual (as can be seen in my cooking). I have done my fair bit of travelling, but I still have my list of "Places to Visit" and "Things to Do" lists tucked in my shirt. I don't lack ambition, so when I make that final journey, I can say I did it my way.
This is all for now, if you want to know more ask...
About His Ideal Match
Must be someone I can be comfortable with, someone who loves and enjoys life as much as I do. Loves and enjoys all the beautiful and fundamental things in life. Willing to experience the new, unusual and unknown, and still cherish the important things in life that makes us human. Must have the desire to travel and see the world, knowing that there is still so much out there to explore. Not wanting to be dominated or be domineering, not to shy, but to be confident. Not be hesitant or shy about her feelings and emotions but to be open - honesty speaks volumes. Wake up every morning and look forward to the new challenges the day will bring, and at the end of the day wanting to share and create moments that made the day special. If you think thats you, lets connect and see where it leads...
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Gaborone (Phakalane), South East, Botswana | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star Sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Other | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Occasional | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Finance | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
30 - 42 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
152cm (4' 11.8") - 186cm (6' 1.2") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Danish; English; French; German; Norwegian; Russian; Swedish | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Legal; Medical / Dental; Government; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
A cruiser |
Personality Traits: |
Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outrageous; Outspoken; Realistic |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; News; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Horror; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Investing; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
American Football; Athletics; Baseball; Boxing; Cricket; Extreme sports; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Golf; Hang- / Paragliding; Horse Riding; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Motorsport; Rugby; Scuba diving; Skiing; Sky diving; Snorkeling; Soccer; Squash; Swimming; Tennis; Water Polo |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I should have a bed in my office |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Mansion with loads of servants |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
